Frequently Asked Questions


I love being bi, but if I go to the events, will people know that I'm with a group of bi women?


Discretion is important to all of us. There is no sign or announcement to anyone that we are special group. Consider these events as a 'girls night out' except you'll be with other bi women.

Whether you're a student or a professional, being bi, doesn't necessarily mean you're an 'out of the closet' type. As a matter of fact, most of the girls prefer to share their wonderful experiences with other bi women and not with the rest of the world.

So relax and be confident about being bi, without being discovered.



What if I'm really shy?


Some girls like shy girls! Just be yourself. Once you are settled in and have met everyone, you'll forget about being shy as you get to know each of the girls. You can also read tips on overcoming shyness.



I'm really new to this. I'm nervous and I don't know what to do.


If you're just starting to explore your bisexuality, you've come to the right place. You can read about what it means to be bi, but the best part of this site is that you'll get to interact with real bisexual women who can help you figure out where you are in this new lifestyle.

You will find the support you'll need at Best of Both Worlds as all members understand how it first felt to 'come out'. You'll find that talking to people is the best way to answer your questions about this new world of bisexuality.



Is membership free if I'm on the mailing list?


There is no fee for being on the mailing list. You are mailed a monthly newsletter of site updates and events.



Can I hold my own events?


You can email info@bobw.ca if you would like to host an event at your house or venue.


How much is membership?


Regular memberships for 1 full year is $75.


How many girls usually come out to these events?


On average, about 15-20 girls make it out to these events. Whether two girls or 50 girls come out, each event is a success because girls are able to meet and make new friends. On top of that, they all have a great time.


I really want to go to the bi get-togethers but I don't know anyone. Any suggestions?


Sign up for an event, and you will be sent some contacts of other girls who will be coming to an event. You can correspond with each other and meet at the outing.



Discretion is important to me. Am I safe at Best of Both Worlds?


Discretion is important to all of us. There is no sign or announcement to anyone that we are special group. The current site is accessable by anyone on the world wide web. However, we are now working on a secure area for members only.


What happens at these bi-meetings?


For the most part, girls meet, talk, flirt, and socialize but, we've had some pretty wild events where *anything* goes. Remember that if you like someone and want to keep in touch with them after the event, don't forget to get their email or telephone numbers! This is why these events are being held.


Is Best of Both Worlds a business?


Best of Both Worlds is a Not-For-Profit Corporation. The organization is maintained by many volunteers. The monies collected from memberships and events go towards paying for expenses related to the site, events and promotion.


Is there a free area?


Information and events regarding our site are free to the general public. We provide a service for people who are looking to meet other quality people and charge a membership fee of $75/year for these services.


How do I join?


You can fill out the membership form and pay by credit card or by cheque. You will need to call 905-593-7700 to confirm your registration.

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BEING NEW IS EXCITING

  As you become familiar with the site, the members and the way events run, you may have questions from time to time. Don't be shy to get an answer to those questions. Ask a fellow member or check out our discussion board. Chances are, the question has already been answered! If not, go ahead and post your question. You can also email info@bobw.ca or any of our volunteers directly.