The
'Best of Both Worlds' Welcomes You
If you've found our
website, you've likely been asking yourself: Am I A Bisexual Woman?
Best of Both Worlds (affectionately known as "BOB"W) is here to help
you through your journey of self-discovery through offering safe,
discreet online discussions and in-person events and establishing
friendships with like minded women. Take your time and browse through
our Guest FAQ area and take comfort in knowing that every woman on this
site felt just as you do today. Just getting this far is a big step,
and hopefully we can support you throughout your journey.
Silent Bi Syndrome:
Chances are, You've Got it!
Many Bicurious and
Bisexual Women feel isolated or unsure as to how to deal with their
new- found sexuality. It is still perceived as 'taboo' in society, even
more so in some cultures and religions. Women often don't feel as
though they can turn to their regular support system of family and
friends with these feelings. There's a husband/boyfriend, children,
family, career, friends, religion, community: so many aspects that you
feel would be at risk if anyone discovered this part of your life.
In many cases, this is a secret
side of yourself you don't feel as though you can share with the rest
of the world just yet, and in some cases you may never want to. BOBW
understands this delicate stage of your sexual self-identity and helps
women build a bridge between their straight world and their new-found
bisexuality. Through online interaction and local events, we bring
otherwise silent bisexual women together in a network of friendly faces
and accepting peers, away from judgmental eyes. BOBW welcomes all women
who are interested in same-sex friendships and relationships with
bisexual women. We also offer referrals outside of BOBW to other local
bisexual organizations that can meet any additional needs you may have,
such as bi support meetings, couples issues, and gender identity.
Even if you lead a more
established bisexual lifestyle, you may have become frustrated through
online dating forums and inboxes full of unsolicited emails from men.
Maybe endless ads for 'one-nighters' and sexfests have turned you off
of other internet sites because you're looking for something a little
more substantial. Best of Both Worlds is not a 'sex club': we have
created online activities and local events that cater to the bisexual
lifestyle. We make every attempt to weed out obvious males from our
site, and through Membership Verification, BOBW Members (known as BOB's
Girls) are always Real Women, looking for genuine friendships and
relationships.
So What's BOBW All About?
Best of Both Worlds is like a
gatekeeper, standing at the threshold of a whole new world. Many of you
have never had any affiliation with anything other than a 'vanilla'
lifestyle: bisexual, queer, kink and other lifestyles seem pretty
overwhelming, which is why you have likely never ventured out in
pursuit of your bisexuality alone. Don't Panic - we won't bombard you
with everything the alternative world has to offer all at once and will
encourage you to progress at your own pace.
Best of Both Worlds is a
private, membership-driven club that attracts an exclusive member-base
of mature and sophisticated bi and bicurious women and their partners.
BOBW's focus is helping straight-identified women discover their new
bisexual identity; as such we have a strict same-sex policy at events
that are marked as Women Only. Mixed Events allow for BOBW members to
be escorted by either gender, regardless of orientation. Women can be
assured in knowing that NO Single Men will be admitted at any event
sanctioned by BOBW.
BOBW hosts a wide variety of
events from public coffee nights and potluck dinners to Ladies' Escape
Weekends and Women Only VIP Events. We attract women of all ages and
ethnicity, and everyone is very accepting - you're sure to meet someone
you'll click with, be it for friendship or something more intimate.
BOBW protects our members by offering private event locations with a
pre-registration process to ensure your safety and privacy. We don't
allow full names or photos to be posted online to maintain the
discretion of all its members, even through association. Respect,
Open-mindedness, and Acceptance are upheld both in our online
discussions and at our events; Expressions of Intolerance is reason
enough for membership revocation and/or banned from events.
How Does a Girl Get Started?
Creating an online identity is
the best way to start breaking the ice and interacting with other women
in the club. At the top of this page, there's a link for the BOBW
Discussion Forum - Click on it and it will take you to our discussion
board. Register your nickname and email address and create a profile
where you'll soon be able to read, post and message other members
online. Check out our upcoming events and ask all the questions you've
been dying to ask! Profiles are free, however free memberships have
limited access.
Is Membership Required?
Membership is not necessary
for your participation either on the Discussion Board or at BOBW
Events, but offers substantial benefits. For less than $7/month, you
will receive:
- Access to the
complete Discussion Forum (private forums invisible to guests and
non-members)
- Private forums
only accessible by other members who have been verified as Real Women.
- Email updates
and instant access to Event Details and locations, as well as
discounted rates on every event you attend (sometimes as much as 50%
less than non-members).
- " Coming Soon:
Member's Only Profiles and Personals to help you connect with other
women.
You don't have to purchase a
membership to browse our guest forums or attend any upcoming event, but
free members have limited access and pay premiums for events. If you
intend to participate by coming to events, you'll find your annual
membership will pay for itself within the first couple of events.
Feel Free to explore BOBW's
website and browse the Discussion Forum ~ Thanks for Coming Bi!!
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